Monday, July 23, 2012


Driving home from the gym this morning and a sweaty five mile run, I heard this song...

If you can get past the fact that Hunter Hayes, the singer/songwriter is like 12...the lyrics are meaningful.

Most recently, I've had a couple of girlfriends going through life changing sets of circumstances and many girlfriends who have echoed their sentiments.

They feel trapped in marriages...stuck...wanting to feel "wanted" by their partners.

If you're a man and you're looking for a little insight into what I the video above and/or listen to me.

It's not enough to tell your partner that she's pretty.  It's not enough to buy flowers.  It's not enough to pay the mortgage payment and to make sure that there's cable.

Women want to feel wanted in a particular way.  They want to know that you specifically want them.

So, talk to her.  Become interested in her world.  Ask her what matters.  Help her overcome her fears so that she can rise to become that which you (and eventually she) know that she can be.  Love on her.  Let her know that above all, you are grateful for her...specifically for her. 

The craziest part is that it's not that hard.  Endearing the love of a woman means the ultimate loyalty, trust, passion, and commitment that we all want in our partnerships.

You've just got to make her feel wanted...every day.

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