Sunday, October 19, 2014
Why We Do It
Yep, that's a picture of my foot and my blackened toe.
I'm gonna lose another one.
This will be my fourth casualty in the love of running.
When I inadvertently showed my friend the other day, she said, "Why in the Hell do you do that shit? Haven't you suffered from like every running injury known to man? Maybe, we're just too old."
And, well, she's kinda right. I've had shin splints, IT band issues, hamstring, knee and heel pain, lost toe nails and now, some unknown throbbing pain on the top of my right foot.
So, I started thinking about it. Why do I do it? Maybe running is just too hard on the body, particularly the older you get and if you were never really an athlete in the first place.
Then, because being a mama is my primary role in life, I started likening motherhood to running.
Being a mother is not easy, by any stretch. There are days when I come out of the trenches looking far worse for the wear with very little reward to show for it minus the fact that my children are alive and I am too...but just barely. I've suffered infinite scrapes and bruises to my heart and my ego, continuous amounts of sleep deprivation, hair pulling, back talking, eye rolling, screaming, crying, gnashing of the teeth...and that's just getting started.
But after nine years of doing this gig with three kiddos, I've also experienced a love that is unparalleled by anything else. And I would walk through fire for any one of them every day and twice on Tuesday.
And well, it's worth it.
Just like running. When it starts to hurt or gets to be a bit overwhelming, you back off, try a new route, ice down the worn parts, ibuprofen the inflammation, and then, well you get back on the horse.
Because the high that comes from the endorphins, the adrenaline, the release of toxins and unnecessary stress is really, well for me, unparalleled by anything really, other than, wait for it, wait for it...sex. You knew that I had to say it.
For now, I'm stuck with the ugly parts of me like blackened toe nails, chaffing and sore quads.
As well as the sassy comments from the littles when they're overstimulated, undernourished, irritated at the world, or just in a funk...but sooner, rather than later, I'm reminded of why we do what we do...it's so worth it.