Wednesday, October 21, 2015
Happy Birthday, Mom
This is my mom and today is her birthday.
She turned a very young 63.
I've written about her before. How for example if you've never met her, you would know that she is my mother simply by the sound of her voice. She is soft and kind and way more sugary sweet than me. Her smile will melt you and even if you're not the "huggy" type, you'll embrace her because she instantly makes you feel wanted and loved.
She has five children and 10 grandchildren and all of them love her to pieces. When she comes to babysit, she sets the littles off on scavenger hunts and listens while they play the trumpet or the piano or watches them "Whip" and "Nene" or paint or play American Girl dolls all while expressing how big they've gotten and how beautiful they are.
If you need anything, no matter how small or large, it is yours...with absolutely no expectation of reciprocity. There is literally nothing that she has to have because I've literally watched her give away most of her possessions at any one given time...with the mindset that you can't take it with you.
And if you want to know the the power of elbow grease combined with the unconditional love of the heart, watch what she does for a living. Serving as a resident liason for amazing elderly people in their final days, she teaches yoga; dances the Jitterbug; prays when they are scared; calms their family when they are weak and gives them hope as their faculties are failing. If you've not seen her in action, I can attest that it is holy work and not for the faint of heart.
All of this combined with her physical beauty. She makes no bones about coloring her hair, taking care of her toes, maintaining an active exercise regimen and drinking a glass of wine or two or three...whatever it takes.
And as I look at her, I know that I am blessed to be her daughter. At the age of 40, I pray that I get many, many more birthdays to honor and celebrate with her. Many more times to say thank you for teaching me the power of sacrifice, the meaning of hard work, the declaration of love.
If I thanked you daily, it would not be enough.
Happy Birthday, Mama...we love you...xoxo