It was the last one.
The final push.
The biggest training run to date...20 miles.
And in a nutshell, it was b.r.u.t.a.l.
To the credit of the run itself, I did sort of set myself up for a rough go. The night before, I got a 90-minute deep tissue massage. You know the one I'm talking about....where the therapist asks you if she's applying enough pressure right at the moment that you're certain she's broken your back and you meekly say, "Ya...I'm good," while you wince and try to focus on your breathing and stay calm.
And then, because she's dispelled the mother lode of toxins into your system, you're supposed to drink a trough of water and pee your brains out. Instead, I went to book club and drank vodka, took some ibuprofen and went to bed.
I woke up at 6am with the intent of getting out the door early. I was expecting the run to take me close to four hours and the temperature was already 60 degrees at 7am. So, after applying a shit ton of sunscreen and body glide, I said a prayer and left.
Almost immediately, it didn't feel right. I was hot, like sticky, can't get my breathing under control, nasty humid hot. And then, to literally add fuel to the fire, I decided to try a different brand of nutrition, hell bent to find some gu that I could digest. And my stomach was in knots.
The first 13 miles were more than doable, but by the time I got to mile 15, I was beyond sluggish. I play this game with myself where I refuse to walk unless I'm forced by another pedestrian, a cross walk, etc...but yesterday, I found myself defaulting to a walk and I knew I was in for it.
By mile 18, I ran out of water. I carry my agua on my back in a 70 ounce Camelbak. And well, given that it was sunny and 80 degrees at that point, I was fucked.
I barely eeked out the final two miles, when literally two blocks from my house, my knees buckled and my ass hit the trail and I called my husband to come and get me. I was furious. I came home and puked and cried.
I had done the mileage, but it was the most miserable run to date and it was the last one before the race. Not a good way to go out.
Feeling like a failure, I got dressed up and headed to a friends' surprise birthday party and chatted with one of my besties. It was in that dialogue that it all came together...
"I feel like a fucking loser." (me)
"Naw...what did you learn?"
"Good God, what did I not learn. No massage the night before. I need to start hydrating in mass quantities days before the race. I must take advantage of every aid station along the way. I need to pace myself stronger on the first half of the mileage, so that as the heat kicks up, I can still maintain the back half. I've got to have a mantra and fall back on it over and over again when I find myself in the dark places." (me)
"Well then, thank God you had this piece of shit run. You were meant to. It served it's purpose. You're working these kinks out now, instead of on the day of. And, you survived. Which means you can do it."
As hell bent as I am in my life to thrive and to accomplish, it was in that moment that I recognized that failure has more often served me than success. The lessons I've learned when I'm on the ground writhing in pain, humiliated, fearful, regretful, angry and frustrated have always stuck with me. And the greatest lesson has always been to get back up again.
Three weeks from today is race day.
The physical taper has begun, but I'm using these 21 days to get strong mentally and to let the lessons sink in...because as my friend taught me, it's never too late to capitalize on that which you thought was a huge failure.
Sunday, April 13, 2014
Friday, April 4, 2014
30 Days Until D-Day
It is insane to me that I'm 30 days out from the day I run my first marathon.
How did that happen?
Focused on an 18-week training cycle, the actual day of the event felt like an eternity away and now, well, I'm inching ever so closely to the day that the magic happens.
To be honest, training for a marathon has been one of the most gut-wrenching experiences of my life. I've gone through three different pairs of running shoes, umpteen different types of gels, gus, sports beans, chews, bars, physical therapy, massage, essential oils, tears, screaming, dehydration, chaffing, loneliness, lack of self-confidence and overall, exhaustion.
And to be even more fair, I have not done a good job of logging in all of my training runs and my pace is as slow as a snail.
But short of experiencing significant injury or a gunshot wound on the course, I should by 12pm on Sunday, May 4th be able to claim that I am a marathoner.
It's hard to know why this goal was on my bucket list of crazy things to do before I turn 40, because it's really not crazy, it's more masochistic in nature. And let me let you in on a little secret that really sucks, I've not yet met a marathoner in training that loses a shit ton of weight in the process. The truth is that you're hungry for carbs, for red meat, for sugar, for your own hand and you want to replace the calories as fast as they depart from your body.
But what you don't lose in weight, you gain in self worth....and there is no myth to that. Last week on a 19-mile training run, I thought I was going to lose my marbles on the last mile. I was dying. I was caving. I was not in a happy place. And like second nature, I fought. I fought hard. I put one foot in front of the other and I forced my way, inch by inch until the Garmin told me to stop, the clouds opened and God said, "You did it." I was about to collapse, but I didn't. I forged on.
And that's what marathon training does. It takes you to places physically and mentally that you didn't know existed. It creates a coat of armor that teaches you what to do when you get scared, unsure, in peril. And it builds a skin that is tough...and that has been worth all the while.
I still have a lot of running left before the race. My biggest training run of 20-miles is in a week. And so, I tread lightly, knowing that anything can happen...but being extremely hopeful, that it will all come to bear fruit...that I can eat instantly.
How did that happen?
Focused on an 18-week training cycle, the actual day of the event felt like an eternity away and now, well, I'm inching ever so closely to the day that the magic happens.
To be honest, training for a marathon has been one of the most gut-wrenching experiences of my life. I've gone through three different pairs of running shoes, umpteen different types of gels, gus, sports beans, chews, bars, physical therapy, massage, essential oils, tears, screaming, dehydration, chaffing, loneliness, lack of self-confidence and overall, exhaustion.
And to be even more fair, I have not done a good job of logging in all of my training runs and my pace is as slow as a snail.
But short of experiencing significant injury or a gunshot wound on the course, I should by 12pm on Sunday, May 4th be able to claim that I am a marathoner.
It's hard to know why this goal was on my bucket list of crazy things to do before I turn 40, because it's really not crazy, it's more masochistic in nature. And let me let you in on a little secret that really sucks, I've not yet met a marathoner in training that loses a shit ton of weight in the process. The truth is that you're hungry for carbs, for red meat, for sugar, for your own hand and you want to replace the calories as fast as they depart from your body.
But what you don't lose in weight, you gain in self worth....and there is no myth to that. Last week on a 19-mile training run, I thought I was going to lose my marbles on the last mile. I was dying. I was caving. I was not in a happy place. And like second nature, I fought. I fought hard. I put one foot in front of the other and I forced my way, inch by inch until the Garmin told me to stop, the clouds opened and God said, "You did it." I was about to collapse, but I didn't. I forged on.
And that's what marathon training does. It takes you to places physically and mentally that you didn't know existed. It creates a coat of armor that teaches you what to do when you get scared, unsure, in peril. And it builds a skin that is tough...and that has been worth all the while.
I still have a lot of running left before the race. My biggest training run of 20-miles is in a week. And so, I tread lightly, knowing that anything can happen...but being extremely hopeful, that it will all come to bear fruit...that I can eat instantly.
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